Check out second skin audio. Little bit better than the typical dynamat. Their site has a great layout that can give you step by step instructions on layering products to eliminate noise and increase sql. Doing a car correctly can cost you well over 1k though, so be prepared. I'd work on areas like wheel wells, firewall and trunk. That will give you a good start on getting rid of road noise.
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